My 11 year old GD wants to try trap shooting with GP. I have a 870 express 20 ga that I cut down the stock for my son that she can use. I’ll have to put a softer recoil pad on it for her Don’t want to scare her off. Any reduced loads that I can use for her that won’t be to harsh but still break clays. Any input would be great. I know there’s lots of you guys out there that have taught you daughters to shoot. 11’s not to young for a girl is it ?